Relationships & attachment

This section explores the impact of early attachment, relational patterns, and emotional intimacy. Topics include boundaries, communication, secure connection, and how past experiences shape present relationships.

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Depression, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

When Experience Becomes Identity – Part 2

For many people, one of the most persistent emotional filters is loneliness.

Loneliness doesn’t always scream. It whispers. It colors how we respond, interpret, and connect. Often, even strength is built on the foundation of isolation—resilience formed from hyper-independence rather than support.

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Depression, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

When Experience Becomes Identity – Part 1

One of the most beautiful—and challenging—aspects of being in relationship is the way others act as mirrors. In their presence, we often catch glimpses of ourselves we hadn’t seen before. It might be the tone we use, a reaction we didn’t know we had, or a long-held assumption.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 6

Whether we are creating art or life, the first stages of any process have similar components. Anxiety, apprehension, self-doubt, insecurity, excitement, fear, energy, and containment are just a few of the emotions that come up at the beginning of an new endeavor or process.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 5

Whether we are creating art or life, the first stages of any process have similar components. Anxiety, apprehension, self-doubt, insecurity, excitement, fear, energy, and containment are just a few of the emotions that come up at the beginning of an new endeavor or process.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 4

Another stage that mirrors emotional life is messiness. This can manifest as psychological or emotional chaos—the moment when all the carefully balanced parts of life seem to fall apart. In caregiving, parenting, or any high-responsibility role, this phase is familiar.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 3

Another stage that mirrors emotional life is messiness. This can manifest as psychological or emotional chaos—the moment when all the carefully balanced parts of life seem to fall apart. In caregiving, parenting, or any high-responsibility role, this phase is familiar.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 2

One of the earliest lessons a creative process can offer is how to recognize and honor the stage of resistance. Resistance is often misunderstood. In many cultural narratives, it’s something to be avoided, pushed through, or overcome.

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Anxiety, Depression, Intentional living, Relationships & attachment, Self worth & identity

The Art of Being in Process – Part 1

There’s an old adage: “Life imitates art.” This phrase holds true in many ways. Life is not static—it is dynamic and alive. It is, in itself, a creative process. As humans, we are shaped by the life we lead and the process of living.

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